http://www.nytimes.com/2006/12/17/fashion/weddings/17FIELDBOX.html?em&ex=1167714000&en=c6aecbac57bd7998&ei=5087%0A A handy questionnaire for newly-engaged couples to take in tandem. Most couples will be so moony as to gloss over many of the monetary or child-related issues, but Question 12 will be the one that kills the glow and starts the fights.