http://www.safesearching.com/ridealone/
And on a similar note to my previous stumble, I once again HEARTILY RECOMMEND giving this book a read/listen (the listen is especially worthwhile.) I was never much of a Bill Maher fan before 2002, but his points and suggestions are excellent. This is a life- (or, at the very least, an attitude-) changing book about the world and the American place within it.