What Shamu Taught Me About a Happy Marriage – New York Times

http://www.nytimes.com/2006/06/25/fashion/25love.html?ei=5087%0A&em=&en=9ca468cf8d0e20e5&ex=1168750800&pagewanted=all

Sly article about a woman, while researching wild animal trainers, incorporating their methods to “train” her husband.

The central lesson I learned from exotic animal trainers is that I should reward behavior I like and ignore behavior I don’t. After all, you don’t get a sea lion to balance a ball on the end of its nose by nagging. The same goes for the American husband.

Back in Maine, I began thanking Scott if he threw one dirty shirt into the hamper. If he threw in two, I’d kiss him. Meanwhile, I would step over any soiled clothes on the floor without one sharp word, though I did sometimes kick them under the bed. But as he basked in my appreciation, the piles became smaller.

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